If a man wasn’t born into wealth and is working tirelessly to build a life of luxury for his family, his journey is nothing like what you see in the movies. If he is truly dedicated to his craft, he will be locked in for years—possibly decades—at an intensity you may have never witnessed, often at the cost of everything else, including love. If you choose to be with this man, understand what you’re signing up for. Asking him to prioritize you over his vision will be a difficult ask. If you desire someone who will always be present, never miss an event, and be home consistently, choose a man who has already reached that stage in life.